Today Allison and I went to Andy and Rondiâ€™s wedding. That was at 5:00pm. Before the wedding we spent the morning and the afternoon with Grandma and Grandpa. We had a very nice breakfast and lunch with them. Breakfast with Grandma on the sun porch that my Dad built. Lunch was out on the patio outside. We had a very nice weekend with Grandma and Grandpa. It was very nice of them to put us up for the weekend. It was nice to spend a good amount of time with them talking and enjoying each otherâ€™s company. We also had a lazy afternoon and got in a few naps after our recent late nights.
At 3:30 we headed over to West Dennis beach to give Heidi a hand with the beach set up. We brought down the chairs, the bottles of cider, the Frisbees, the shells and the sand. There was quite a bit to set up but the three of us worked very well as a little team. We set up the aisle first. It was lined with seashells that Rondi had spent many days collecting. Then we set up the chairs on either side for the immediate family. There were bottles of cider for everyone to have a toast after Andy and Rondi were married. The Frisbees were Andyâ€™s idea. You see at every wedding he has ever been to heâ€™s made the program into some sort of paper airplane or something so instead of a program they got 60 blue Frisbees and on the front was the explanation of the Frisbee and on the inside were the Thank Youâ€™s. So with everything set up people were beginning to arrive we began welcoming folks. I set up my mini video camera on the tiny tripod to tape the ceremony. Despite the wind the camera picked up all the words from the participants and the camera was in a good position to record the entire ceremony. (I reviewed the video and it came out excellent.)
Now West Dennis Beach is a public beach and it is a very long beach. Andy and Rondi choose one of the furthest points, which is Chair 11. Past Chair 11 kiteboarders and windsurfers can launch their crafts. This made for a wonderful and colorful backdrop during he ceremony. Because it is a public beach there are people who were already on the beach while we were setting up. Luckily there were none who were directly in the area where we were setting up but off to the left there was a couple with a dog that barked a good deal. I was hoping they would clear off once the ceremony started. To the right was a man who had his paper, his beer and a cigar. I was certainly hoping he would clear off. And also to the left there was a young skinny couple who was playing in the surf who might have been a bit distracting. But once the ceremony got under way we didnâ€™t notice them at all. Also there were a few kiteboarders who werenâ€™t quite in total control of heir kites. One guy slammed his kite into the ground mere feet from the couple with the barking dog. And other kiteboarders slammed her kite into the water and her boyfriend helped her out, but mostly they stayed further out and gave a very fitting backdrop to the proceedings. Andy kiteboards and he does it often at West Dennis Beach.
The ceremony began and Andy and his brother Zach walked in behind Reverend Bill. Bill was Rondiâ€™s pastor and Youth Group Advisor while she was growing up. Next came Rondiâ€™s mom who was the Matron of Honor and then Rondi and her Dad. Rondi had the perfect dress for a beach wedding. Simple and elegant with some ties that blew in the wind. I was rapid firing photos throughout the whole ceremony, playing with the focus point to get the kiteboarders in the background and then the couple in the foreground. Rondiâ€™s sister Tammi did the first reading, Allison the second and Andyâ€™s friend Matt did the third. The video picked up each very well. The readings were very special to both Andy and Rondi. They exchanged vows and the families did a Sand Ceremony. This was a wonderful idea. Rather than a unity candle they used sand. Each member of Rondiâ€™s family had a little vial of black sand. Each member of Andyâ€™s family had one of white sand. The Rondiâ€™s family poured their sand into a glass container that Rondi had. Andyâ€™s family poured their sand into the container that Andy had. Then Andy and Rondi each poured their containers into a thin round container. The symbolism was excellent. That new families come from existing families and all that each family has brought together is now so intermixed that it cannot possibly be separated. This was such a special symbol within the ceremony. I loved it.
After the Sand Ceremony and they were pronounced husband and wife the cider was passed around and we had a toast to the newly married couple. We also followed them out to the exit and had a group picture taken. The weather couldnâ€™t have been more perfect and the care and thought that was put into the planning of the wedding couldnâ€™t have been more perfect. We had an excellent time at the ceremony.
After the ceremony I stuck around ad cleaned up and took pictures of the couple and their families and basically shadowed the photographer while trying to stay out of the way. I hope I succeeded in not being a pest. I also walked down to the water and some of the kiteboarders came in and did some tricks. I got a few pictures but missed one guy because he came out of no where when my back was turned, I turned around to just miss catching him doing some crazy trick. I will have to go back down to the beach sometime with Andy and get some pictures.
The reception was held at the West Dennis Yacht Club. This was a very nice setting for the rest of the pictures as well as for celebrating Andy and Rondiâ€™s wedding reception. There were some great hors devours and even clam chowder and steamers and mussels. We sat with friends of Rondiâ€™s named Amanda and Justin and showed Amanda the proper way to eat steamers. I tried t get a couple more pictures of Andy and Rondi but I knew I would have been in the Photographerâ€™s way. He must have gotten some fantastic shots though and I cant wait to see them.
For dinner we were seated with a few of Rondiâ€™s friends, Justin and Amanda, Brian and Katy, and David and Anna. We had a great time talking about weddings how we proposed, what we liked at other weddings we had attended. We had a good time, a nice table for us to be at. On the table there were mini 1/16 scale replica lifeguard chairs. These were the exact to scale replicas of the lifeguard chairs that are on West Dennis Beach. Rondi made them herself. We got to keep one to add to our beach theme room at the Cape. There were also painted seashells with a wedding tradition written and explained on the inside of the shell. This was another of Rondiâ€™s touches and it was a nice icebreaker at the table.
I got some more pictures when Andy and Rondi performed their first dance. They went to the same Dance studio that Allison and I did and they did a great job together for their first dance. I had the camera on the wrong setting when they first started and luckily I noticed it because the first 4 pictures were totally black. I corrected that and did get some nice shots. The wedding cake looked spectacular. There were two tiny chairs on top and all around the bottom was brown sugar to simulate sand, there were beach fences along each tier and candy seashells all over it. It looked awesome. And it tasted pretty good too.
The rest of the night was great with a good DJ and some fun tunes. Andyâ€™s brother Nate who is the most sedate guy most of the time almost knocked me out. On the dance floor he is a machine, a machine with some flailing arms that end in fists. I had to pull my face away more than once. The crowd enjoyed dancing to many 80â€™s tunes. The DJ had our number all right and he kept them coming. We stayed on till the end and enjoyed ourselves thoroughly.
Today is Erik’s birthday. Happy Birthday Erik!
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