I worked in the food service industry as well. And I know that Stephen does have strong feelings and I think that they are more about changing the system rather than not tipping. And sometimes you do feel guilted into tipping. And tipping should be based on service rather than just an expected 15 or 20% across the board. It is with anything else, you should be earning the tips because of the good job that you do. If you do poorly then don’t expect a tip because culturally we are being guilted into it. If I do poorly in my job I shouldn’t expect a raise.

Stephen Dog does have strong feelings. I can understand them too, but my kids have worked as waitresses and so we know the other side (which is, theory be damned, the reality is I need the money).

But back to the point: Allison can use this portrait for all sorts of professional things. It’s important to have a great portrait around.